1. The obvious answer you’re going for is “double standards.” The answers behind that are threefold:
a. “Esau sonei eth Ya’aqov.”
b. “Yishma’el pere adam hu.”
c. The Eruv Rav ruling the country is in a constant and sneaky battle against everything Jewish, Torah and the Land included.

2. “Innocent civilians?” You’re kidding right? There are no such things. {Ramba”m Hil. Melachim uMilhamothehem} Furthermore, many rabbeim have had the guts to say the truth, that we’re in a milhemeth misswah, and thus women and children are fair game.

We are Jews, and are supposed to live by halacha, not by the Western sensibilities in which we have been indoctrinated over the last 2,000 years.